Key to success

Many people view team-based, horizontal, organization structures as the best design for involving all employees in creating business success and profitability.

If you're intrigued by this belief, these books will help you capitalize on team power.

We are all ?self-employed? now.

Today there is absolutely no job security. We are living in an age of corporate downsizing and freelance consultants, or self-employed workers, are increasing by the day.

Networking is one skill you need to practice to get ahead and experience success in these uncertain times.

there are mansu ways that you can gainyour self the only thing is choose the right way

its easy

be hard to by hard and die hard

Ona kamak tiyei nam api katath succes wenna can "awasyathawayak tibe nam karamayakda tibe"

karamyak nemei kramanayakma thiyanava

Mokakda.doo.

if you want sucss dont beliv girl.but belir you faife and jast you mather.

Success is everybody?s dream. But what is the key to success? How can you be successful?

In my post about defining successful people, I wrote that we should measure success based on how much we give rather than how much we receive.

Fortunately, it also works nicely the other way around since those who give more almost always will also receive more.

Based on that, you can see that the more value you give to others, the more successful you will be.

So how do you pave your way to success? How do you become more successful?

The answer is amazingly simple. Here it is.

The key to success is making yourself as useful as possible to others.

That?s it. Making yourself as useful as possible to others.

If you focus on applying this, others will realize the value they get from you and they will attract more people to come to you.

These new people will also realize the value they get from you and they will attract even more people to come to you.

The virtuous cycle begins and you are now on your way to success.

I agree wth mr. Don

Therenne ne ban

With this principle in mind, you should aim at increasing your usefulness to others. How do you do that?

ow bung maga cycal akat kadila.dan bas aka yanna. .mad.

Be observant of needs

To be useful to others, you should always be aware of even the slightest clues of needs.

The more sensitive you are to the needs of others, the more appreciative people will eventually become.

The best scenario is being able to anticipate a need before the other people are even aware of it.

Find solutions to the needs

Now that you are aware of needs, the next step is finding solutions to them.

The solutions you offer should be as useful as possible.

To be able to do so, there is no other way but to continuously build your own value.

It is from the value you have that you could give value to others.

Be proactive to help

Do not wait for the other person to ask for your help. Be proactive.

Give your help even before they ask.

Be sincere

What matters is not only the solution you offer,

but also the way you deliver it.

Being sincere means being glad to help others without expecting anything in return.

Make it your joy to give something to others. People can somehow distinguish whether or not you are sincere.

Go the extra mile.

Doing the above four steps is good, but add this one if you can: give more than expected.

First, give what is expected, and then add a little more.

There are times when we must go through negative situations

Maybe people say something negative about us, or they show rejection or even resentment against us.

Meva Anith Aya Kiyawanawada Manda!.up.

If we don?t change, we don?t grow. If we don?t grow, we aren?t really living.

You need to change in order to grow.

You can?t grow if you just stay where you are.

You can?t grow if you don?t change the way you think and act. In fact, changing your life is a continuous process

For somebody that?s unemployed right now, you need to turn off the news

It will affect the positive attitude you need to have. You?ve got to be positive, because it?s not easy

If you wish to succeed in life, make perseverance your bosom friend, experience your wise counselor, caution your elder brother, and hope your guardian genius.

Looking at my life, there are many life lessons I?ve learned. Some of them are the fruits of difficult experiences.

Some others are the advice I got from wise people.

I?ve just finished reading Every Second Counts by Lance Armstrong. What an amazing guy! What did he have that the other people don?t have? He had the determination to persevere regardless of circumstances.

Reading books is one thing, but actually living them is another thing.

Many people just read a book without ever living it. But as you know, you can never get full benefit from a book if you just read it without putting it into practice.

Many people just read a book without ever living it. But as you know, you can never get full benefit from a book if you just read it without putting it into practice.

Reading a (nonfiction) book is one thing, but getting the most out of it is another thing.

Too many people only reach the surface of the book and never really get into the treasure that is hidden below it.

Or maybe they get a portion of the treasure, but they lose the chance to get

deas are precious. Especially in this Internet age where many things quickly becomes commodity, ideas are what set you apart and keep you ahead of the pack.

You need to always have good and fresh ideas.

Unfortunately, we often cannot anticipate when an idea will come. Suddenly, out of the blue, comes the idea.

There are many tools which can be used for Personal Knowledge Management (PKM), but for me Microsoft OneNote is one of the main tools.

Of course, I also use other tools such as Google Desktop (desktop search), Google Reader (RSS) and del.icio.us (social networking), but in term of idea management, OneNote is the tool for

Previously I?ve written why personal development is important and even more important nowadays.

I believe that one area of it is personal knowledge management (PKM). There are two reasons for this:

This is the era of knowledge worker

PAU ANE DoN.Me topiC Ekata kaURuwat post KaraN Na ne.sad..lol.

here are times when we must go through negative situations. Maybe people say something negative about us, or they show rejection or even resentment against us.

In such situations, it may be difficult to stay positive. We may be inclined to react negatively to them. That won?t do us any good though; doing so will just make the situation worse. People may behave even more negatively to us. Our day would be filled with anger and disappointment.

Though it?s not easy, it?s important to stay positive in negative situations.

Beat the negative situations by staying positive.

Here are 15 tips on how to do it; pick the ones that work for you

Never respond when you are not calm. If you are not sure that you are calm, don?t respond.

Take time to calm yourself down first.

Take a deep breath as a first step to calm yourself down.

Speak in gentle tone to reduce the tension of the situation.

Realize that you can find opportunities in negative situations. Albert Einstein said: ?In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.?

Look at the content of what people say to you for something positive that you can act upon to improve yourself.

Don?t just reject the whole messages.

For the rest of the messages which is negative, simply ignore it.

Maintain positive view of the people.

Maybe you don?t like their messages or behavior, but that doesn?t mean that you can hate them personally.

Realize that having negative feelings will just hurt you, not them.

So there is no reason for you to have any negative feeling.

If you make mistakes, be open to admit it.

If you make mistakes, remember this quote by George Bernard Shaw: ?A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.?

f you can, listen to motivational audio program to feed positive thoughts into your mind.

Talk to a positive friend who can encourage you.

Remember your favorite quotes to give you inspiration and motivation

Look at the negative situations as your training sessions for real life.

The higher you climb in life, the worse the negative situations would be, so you?d better be prepared for them.

Realize that you can?t please everyone.